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INSPIRATION, HOPE FROM WOMEN IN HIJABS
Most people don’t expect grandmotherly women in hijab to be leaders in Caribbean feminist movement building. Last Sunday’s Symposium on Children at Risk, which was collaboratively organised by Madinah House, the TML Ladies Association, the National Muslim Women’s Organisation of Trinidad, and National Islamic Counseling Services, showed the limits of such typical expectations.
I have huge admiration for these experienced and committed women, whose consistent work to challenge and create alternatives to patriarchal domination and its harms might not seem to fit their respectability and religiosity as much as their other efforts to manage teas and celebratory functions for hajjis and hajjahs.
Yet, the history of such woman-centred public engagement dates back to the 1930s when Muslim women began to deliver lectures to mixed audiences, become members of elected mosque boards and councils, hold meetings to develop women’s groups, and participate in debates on a range of topics including, “Be it resolved that Muslim women deserve an equal social status with men.”
From the 1950s, within the Indo-Trinidadian community, the Young Muslim Women’s Association, the San Juan Muslim Ladies Organisation, and the Islamic Ladies Social and Cultural Association began to be established.
The ASJA Ladies Association was represented at the first world conference on the status of women held in Mexico City in 1975.
Muslim women also have a history of pushback against partitions narrowing their space for prayer in the masjid, and challenges to their exclusion from voting in organisational elections when they perceived their association or jamaat being a “boys’ club” for far too long.
Muslim women have also long been part of Caribbean feminist response to issues such as violence against women.
Madinah House, a temporary shelter for women and children escaping domestic abuse, which began operations in 1999, and is run by Muslim women, is one such example.
Beyond services are also advocacy and consciousness-raising within the Muslim community and nationally, in collaboration with the wider women’s rights movement, to encourage men to more greatly share domestic work, to call for greater commitment to ending child abuse, and to insist on collective responsibility for families free from violence.
Sunday showed such larger work to break silences about the reality of incest, neglect and abuse in children’s lives, and to provide concrete understandings of vulnerability and risk.
Supported by the US Embassy, the symposium brought a range of powerful women to the mic, including Lt Colonel Shareda Hosein, originally from Aranguez and now retired from the US Army. Sit with your children, listen to what works or doesn’t in the family, write down what should change and commit to it as parents, she suggested.
The indomitable Natalie O’Brady, General Manager of the Rape Crisis Society of T&T/Coalition Against Domestic Violence, reinforced the importance of stable homes, and parental time and attention. These are fundamental to child protection, resilience and rights.
Children’s Authority staff and clinical psychologist, Vandana Siew Sankar, highlighted that neglect and physical abuse is almost equally distributed amongst girls and boys, with their greatest vulnerabilities occurring before they are four years old, except in cases of sexual abuse, which become more common, especially for girls, with the onset of puberty.
Director of the Gender Affairs Division, Ms Antoinette Jack-Martin pointed to the establishment of a Central Registry on Domestic Violence, precisely to address a need for accessible statistics.
Finally, Sharifa Ali-Abdullah, whose work to develop the Children’s Authority of T&T is legendary, emphasised that we should take seriously the likelihood that oncoming economic decline and unemployment will increase the incidence of child abuse, which already spans from extreme and exceptional to everyday and normalised in the thousands of cases that come to the attention of the Authority, and which are largely inadequately addressed by social services.
These efforts to prioritise prevention of violence against women and children; to provide woman-run, woman-centred and community-supported services; and to publicly bring a message fundamentally grounded in a right to live free of domination, threat and fear are strengths on which the regional women’s rights movement was built over the last decades.
Consistent with such a history of Muslim women’s pious, yet path-breaking contributions to a Caribbean feminist vision, Sunday again offered lessons and inspiration.
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